Look, I love princess stories just as much as the next gal but Disney really screwed a bunch of us over … making us believe in magic, a stud coming to save us on a white horses, and frogs turning into princes and all that shit.
Between you and me?
Frogs don’t do SHIT except pee on you and possibly eat some flies from your yard. Sigh.
So now, as grown ass women, we have the unfortunate task of unpacking all of that crap we’ve been fed our whole lives. Not just from Disney either but from society, social media, our parents, love stories we’ve read, you name it, we got fucked up messages about us not being complete without a man. About not being able to do stuff like buy houses, cars, RVs, motorcycles … without a man.
And god help us if you were never into guys! You REALLY had no model for how any relationships could work except the hetero-normative stuff we’ve all been choked with.
So here we are … standing by ourselves, wondering how the hell we got here and what to do we do now??
I want to challenge you that you don’t need to do a damn thing. Nothing. Nada.
That you are PERFECT just the way you are! You don’t need a man or anyone to rescue you or to save you!
You are actually fully equipped to save your damn self!
You see, my sweet girl, you are already everything you have ever needed. You are already full of courage, strength and determination. You can actually take care of yourself just fine.
I mean, maybe you haven’t had a lot of practice yet but that’s okay! The only way any of us get better at stuff is the 3 P’s (practice, perseverance and patience). Apply the 3 P’s to any task and you will see how much easier it becomes after a few weeks of this.
So, say goodbye to Cinderella, Snow White, Belle, Fiona (okay, she’s not Disney but I love me some Shrek) and say hello to YOU.
You are the one you’ve been waiting for and you’ve been here all along!
No one has told you yet but I’m telling you that you can pull yourself up, dust yourself off, give yourself a kiss even and get your ass moving towards all those big goals and dreams you have! RIGHT. NOW.
And hey, if you meet a cute boy or girl along the way, have some fun! But don’t lean on them for anything except love and support which we can all use more of!
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